Just Shut Up Already!

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       Ever get the feeling that you were so annoyed that you could punch something or someone. That's the same feeling that I get when people tend to express their discontentment with their lives, but put no action forward to change its course. If you ever find yourself around someone who keeps crying about the current state of their life, but yet have not tried to put forth any effort- tell them to "just shut up already"! Now don't get me wrong, this may not work in every scenario, but the sentiment behind helping people out of their anxieties is to get them to accept their reality. Out of everyone that I have counselled or mentored, I have found that getting them to the point of acknowledgment tends to remedy some of "whoa it is me". 
        It is easier for a person to lay the blame on others but never conceding that they might be somewhat at fault as well. Learn to disengage from being the victim and learn to become a victor- this takes you back into the role of power! Life can be a great as you'd like it to be, but the biggest opponent is not circumstances, it's our understanding that we have the right to make decisions that change the trajectory of our lives. If you find yourself crying about some bad decisions, realize you made the decisions, but don't get stuck in your disappointments. 
        Release them and decide to dream big again! When I started looking at the most disappointing events in my life, like anyone else it caused me to be dismayed,but it wasn't until I came into the revelation that things could change based on a simple ideology of self empowerment. Be empowered to know that your greatest failure is only an opportunity for an even greater victory! Now shut up with the sob story and DREAM BIG!!!!!!

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